About Connie
Connie Zmijewski is a licensed clinical mental health counselor who helps people facing relationship strain, grief, parenting challenges, depression, anxiety, ADHD, and stress. She frames sessions around what matters to each person and looks for practical steps to make day-to-day life easier. Connie speaks plainly and focuses on small changes that add up over time.
Connie brings two decades of counseling experience to her practice in North Carolina. She encourages clients to name their goals and to try simple skills between sessions.
Background and approach
Conversations tend to be direct and respectful, with attention to what is working as well as what feels stuck. Her work draws on several well-known approaches, including acceptance and commitment ideas, client-centered listening, and cognitive behavioral techniques. She uses these methods to help people notice unhelpful patterns and to build alternatives that fit their values.
The tone is practical rather than abstract, with exercises that can be used at home. Connie also pays attention to life events such as loss, caregiving strain, transitions, and chronic health burdens. She often helps people untangle communication difficulties and manage strong emotions like anger or low self-esteem.
The aim is to increase coping skills and to restore a sense of control in everyday routines. People who choose Connie will find a steady, experienced counselor who emphasizes collaboration. She supports clients in discovering strengths already present and in taking concrete steps toward clearer priorities and better daily functioning.
Approaches you can use online
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people clarify their values and take small actions that match those values. It can ease stuckness and reduce avoidance by teaching practical ways to live with difficult thoughts and feelings. Client-Centered Therapy focuses on deep listening and empathy so people feel heard and can explore their own solutions; it helps when someone needs space to process emotions and regain footing. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and teaches concrete skills to change unhelpful patterns, which is useful for anxiety, depression, and sleep problems.Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, preferences, and what has helped in the past. Together they will choose or combine methods and adjust them over time to fit changing needs and priorities.
Online therapy with Connie is available through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. Video is helpful for in-depth sessions and visual cues, while phone calls use less bandwidth and can be easier during a busy day. Live chat and text messaging offer brief check-ins, skill practice, or ongoing support between longer sessions. These options make scheduling more flexible and can help therapy fit into a busy life.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Grief
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Immigration issues
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 20 years
- Licensed
- North Carolina
- Languages
- English
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