About Elizabeth

Elizabeth Kotkin is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 35 years of experience. She works with people facing depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, addiction, and ADHD-related concerns. Her manner is warm and straightforward, aimed at helping clients make clear changes one step at a time.

She begins by listening closely to each person's story. Sessions focus on understanding patterns that cause distress and on building practical skills to manage symptoms like sleeplessness, anger, or social anxiety.

Background and approach

Elizabeth uses approaches that emphasize collaboration and measurable steps forward. Her background includes long clinical practice in New York and California. That experience gives her perspective on life transitions such as divorce, midlife shifts, aging concerns, and parenting stress.

She also works with people coping with abandonment, family of origin issues, or the effects of past sexual assault and abuse. In therapy she combines client-centered talk with targeted strategies from cognitive behavioral therapy and solution-focused methods. Motivational interviewing helps when change feels overwhelming, while trauma-focused work supports healing after significant events.

Sessions are paced to fit each person's readiness and goals. Elizabeth aims to help people build practical routines and clearer thinking. She supports improvements in relationships, daily functioning, and emotional regulation.

Her practice is in New York, and she offers sessions in English.

Therapeutic approaches adapted for online care

Elizabeth blends client-centered therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy in ways that work well online. Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and building a respectful relationship so people feel heard and understood; it helps when someone needs space to process grief, shame, or relationship stress. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) targets thoughts and behaviors with clear techniques like behavioral experiments and thought records to reduce anxiety, depression, insomnia, or ADHD-related daily challenges.

She treats the choice of approach as a collaborative decision. Together the therapist and client review goals, try approaches that fit the person's needs, and adjust methods based on what feels most helpful. That teamwork helps identify whether brief solution-focused steps or deeper trauma work is the better path.

Online sessions give practical flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. Video is useful for face-to-face conversation and skill practice, phone calls can fit shorter check-ins or lower bandwidth, and live chat or text messaging work well for brief updates or when typing feels easier than talking. These options make it simpler to keep regular appointments around work, caregiving, or travel while using therapeutic strategies adapted for remote sessions.

Questions people ask

What concerns does Elizabeth commonly address?
She helps people with depression, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, addictions, ADHD, relationship and intimacy-related issues, and related struggles like shame, isolation, and parenting stress.
How would you describe her therapy style?
Her style is collaborative and practical. She listens closely, then combines client-centered conversation with targeted strategies to build coping skills and small achievable goals.
What kind of clinical background does she bring?
She has 35 years of clinical experience working in New York and California, focusing on life transitions, trauma recovery, addiction concerns, and emotional regulation.
What credentials and location are on record?
She is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) and holds credentials as CA LMFT and NY LMFT. Her practice is located in New York.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
She provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the first steps to begin working together?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

What this therapist works with

Experience
35 years
Licensed
New York, California
Languages
English

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