About Haley
Haley Harmer is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with 11 years of clinical experience. She focuses on concerns like anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, relationship and family stress, addictions, ADHD, and parenting-related strain. Haley meets people where they are and aims to build trust quickly so they can start making practical changes.
Her approach is adaptable and straightforward. She draws from cognitive behavioral therapy, client-centered methods, and acceptance and commitment ideas to shape sessions around each person’s needs.
Background and approach
Haley keeps sessions warm and respectful, and she listens for what matters most to each person before suggesting tools or homework. Haley often helps people work through patterns that keep them stuck, like communication problems, control issues, codependency, or difficulty managing emotions. She also supports those facing life changes such as divorce, adoption or foster care transitions, fertility challenges, and caregiving stress.
Practical skills and small habit shifts are a regular part of the work. People who come to Haley can expect empathy, clear feedback, and a focus on usable strategies. She uses plain language and straightforward plans rather than jargon.
Her goal is to help clients build confidence in handling day-to-day struggles and longer-term challenges. Based in Oklahoma, Haley offers a calm, encouraging presence and tailors sessions to each person’s values and goals. She encourages realistic steps and celebrates progress along the way.
Therapeutic approaches and online care
Haley uses cognitive behavioral therapy and acceptance and commitment approaches to help people break unhelpful thinking and focus on actions that match their values. CBT involves identifying thought patterns and practicing different behaviors to reduce anxiety or depressive symptoms. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice painful thoughts without getting swept away and take values-based steps toward the life they want.She also incorporates attachment-based ideas, which look at how early relationships shape current patterns in communication and trust. That work can help with intimacy-related issues, family conflict, and challenges around abandonment or foster care transitions. Together, these methods are mixed to match each person's priorities rather than following a single script.
Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Haley will talk through goals, try techniques, and adjust methods based on what feels useful. Clients are invited to give feedback so sessions stay focused on real-world changes and manageable steps.
Online therapy options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is useful for deeper conversations and visual cues, phone sessions suit shorter check-ins or when bandwidth is limited, and chat or messaging can work for brief skill practice or between-session support. These choices make it easier to fit therapy into work, parenting, or caregiving routines.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Eating disorders
- Family problems
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Traumatic brain injury
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 11 years
- Licensed
- Oklahoma
- Languages
- English
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