About Hillary

Dr. Hillary Schaefer offers a calm, straightforward approach for people worried about stress, anxiety, ADHD, depression, and related concerns. She writes plainly in sessions and focuses on practical steps clients can use right away.

Dr. Schaefer aims to build trust quickly so people feel heard and ready to try new strategies. She earned a doctorate from the University of Virginia in 2013 and has practiced for 12 years.

Her work has included clinic, hospital, and university settings as well as roles directing a clinic that served families and children.

Background and approach

Dr. Schaefer holds credentials as a New York psychologist and a Washington psychologist and practices from New York. In sessions she emphasizes collaboration and clear goals.

Clients can expect an honest conversation about what is and isn’t working, followed by specific tools they can use between meetings. She draws on several approaches to tailor the work to each person’s needs. Her listed concerns include parenting, self-esteem, coping with life changes, addictions, relationships, intimacy-related issues, eating and sleeping problems, anger, career concerns, bipolar disorder, compassion fatigue, and more.

She also notes focused experience with BDSM, kink, alternative sex culture, blended family issues, body image, cancer caregiving, codependency, and dissociation. Dr. Schaefer uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy, and Existential Therapy as tools in her work.

Sessions are offered in English and delivered through video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging. To begin, people complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule according to available times.

How these approaches work online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them and then commit to actions that match their values. It can be useful for anxiety, stress, and making life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on spotting unhelpful thinking patterns and testing new behaviors to reduce symptoms like low mood or anxiety. It often includes homework and practical exercises between sessions. Client-Centered Therapy prioritizes creating a nonjudgmental space where the person sets the pace and the therapist listens deeply to help the person find their own solutions.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t helped before. Together they will try methods and adjust the plan so it fits the client’s needs and day-to-day life.

Online therapy makes regular meetings easier to fit into busy schedules. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues, phone sessions can be a good option when bandwidth is limited, and live chat or text-based messaging are useful for brief check-ins or flexible communication. These formats make it simpler to keep momentum between sessions and to use therapy without long commutes.

Questions people ask

What issues does she commonly address?
She works with stress, anxiety, ADHD, depression, parenting concerns, relationship and intimacy issues, eating and sleeping problems, addictions, bipolar concerns, and many related areas.
What is the style of therapy like?
Her style is collaborative and direct. She focuses on clear goals and practical tools you can use between sessions.
How long has she been practicing?
She has 12 years of experience and completed her doctorate in 2013 at the University of Virginia.
What credentials and where is she located?
She is a New York Psychologist (022053) and a Washington Psychologist (PY.61029319) and practices from New York.
What languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
Which session formats are available?
She provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the first steps to start?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's listed availability.

What this therapist works with

Most often

Experience
12 years
Licensed
New York, Washington
Languages
English

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