About Henry
Henry "Jay" Swedlaw is a licensed professional counselor who brings 20 years of experience to his work. He practices as an LPCC and a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor. He focuses on helping people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, addiction, trauma, grief, and ADHD.
Jay aims to make the first conversation simple and clear. He listens first, then helps people set practical goals. Sessions often focus on small changes that add up over time.
Background and approach
He works in a direct but compassionate way so people can try new strategies between meetings. In therapy he uses methods that help people notice their thoughts and choose actions that match their values. He also uses tools that break problems into manageable steps.
This combination supports coping with day-to-day demands as well as bigger life transitions. He has a long history of working with issues around sexuality and identity, including LGBT matters and gender dysphoria. He also addresses topics such as intimacy, body image, BDSM and kink culture, and compassion fatigue.
He speaks English and accepts international clients who can join from other places. Jay offers sessions in several formats, including video calls, phone, live chat, and text-based messaging. Pricing varies with region and uses a subscription system that can be canceled at any time.
To begin, a person completes a short matching questionnaire and schedules a time based on therapist availability.
How therapeutic approaches fit into online care
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people identify what matters to them and take small steps toward those values even when feelings are hard. It’s useful for chronic stress, anxiety, and coping with life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions connect and teaches practical skills to change unhelpful patterns; it often helps with anxiety, depression, and ADHD-related routines. Mindfulness Therapy focuses on present-moment awareness and simple attention skills that reduce reactivity and improve focus and emotional balance.Choosing an approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will listen to goals and try methods that fit a person's needs and preferences. Plans are adjusted over time based on what works, with feedback used to refine focus and tools.
Online formats - video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging - offer flexibility for different schedules and needs. Video is useful for in-depth sessions, phone can be a lower-bandwidth option, live chat allows shorter check-ins, and messaging supports ongoing reflection between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into work, school, or busy family routines while still working on meaningful change.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Anger management
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Bipolar disorder
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- HIV / AIDS
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Men's issues
- Money and financial issues
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Trichotillomania
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 20 years
- Licensed
- Florida, Texas, Wyoming, New Mexico, Arizona, New Hampshire, California
- Languages
- English
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