About Nicole
Nicole Shaddix-Olsen is a licensed counselor who focuses on practical, relationship-centered care. She uses a down-to-earth style to help people manage stress, anxiety, ADHD concerns, depression, and difficult life changes. Nicole holds LCPC and LPC credentials and brings nine years of professional experience to her work.
She creates a calm space where people can talk through what feels hard. Sessions emphasize listening first, then figuring out doable steps. Nicole aims to reduce overwhelm by breaking problems into small, manageable parts.
Background and approach
Her approach draws on attachment-based ideas to sort out connection and trust issues. She also uses client-centered methods that follow the person’s pace and priorities. Mindfulness practices are included when helpful to build present-moment coping skills.
Nicole has supported people dealing with trauma, grief, addictions, and family conflict. She also helps with parenting stress, career concerns, relationship and intimacy issues, and questions around gender and sexual identity. When deeper processing is needed, she can incorporate body-focused work and trauma processing techniques.
Clients can expect collaborative goal-setting and clear next steps between sessions. Nicole works with each person to find what fits their life and rhythm. Her style is straightforward, caring, and focused on real-world changes.
Therapeutic approaches adapted for online care
Nicole blends attachment-based and client-centered approaches to guide online work. Attachment-based work focuses on how connection and trust shape reactions in relationships and helps people notice patterns in how they relate to others. Client-centered therapy centers the person's experience, using active listening and empathy to shape the pace and goals of sessions.She also draws on Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skills to teach concrete strategies for managing intense emotions and improving communication. DBT-style skills are useful for stress, anger, self-regulation, and relationship challenges, and they translate well to remote sessions through guided practice and short exercises.
Finding the right approach is part of the process; the therapist will talk with each person about needs, goals, and preferences and then test what works best. That collaborative process can include trying mindfulness exercises, DBT skills, or attachment-focused conversations and adjusting based on what helps.
Online therapy options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video sessions allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or for quick check-ins. Live chat and messaging work well for brief updates, brainstorming, or people who prefer writing over talking. These formats aim to make therapy more flexible and easier to fit into daily life.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Parenting issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Coaching
- Communication problems
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Mood disorders
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Personality disorders
- Post-traumatic stress
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 9 years
- Licensed
- Kansas, Missouri, Florida
- Languages
- English
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