About Olayinka

Olayinka "Mary" Akeju is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in New Jersey who draws on a client-centered approach to help people facing stress, anxiety, relationship struggles, and ADHD. She keeps sessions focused and practical, helping clients name their priorities and try small, doable changes between meetings. Mary uses straightforward language and steady support to help clients feel understood and make progress.

Mary combines acceptance and commitment ideas with cognitive-behavioral tools to address unhelpful thoughts and patterns.

Background and approach

She also uses attachment-based thinking to look at how early relationships shape current struggles. Sessions often include skill building for emotional regulation and clearer communication with others. Mary has 17 years of counseling experience.

That background informs how she tailors strategies for each person. She pays attention to cultural context and to the particular stressors a person brings into the room. She helps people cope with trauma, parenting stress, grief, addictions, mood swings, and career concerns.

Mary also supports those dealing with identity questions, intimacy challenges, and eating or sleeping problems. Her approach blends practical steps with attention to values and relationships. People who choose Mary can expect a collaborative process.

She listens first, then offers tools and exercises to try between sessions. Her goal is to help clients build clarity, stronger coping, and healthier patterns over time.

Approaches that guide online work

Mary frequently draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) when working online. ACT focuses on clarifying what matters to a person and building small actions that match those values, which can help with motivation and life changes. CBT breaks down thoughts, feelings, and behaviors to identify patterns and try practical skills that reduce distress over time.

She also uses attachment-based ideas to notice how early relationship patterns affect current reactions and closeness. That perspective helps when a client wants to improve communication or manage emotional triggers. Together these approaches give both short-term tools and longer-term ways to shift relationships and habits.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Mary collaborates with each client to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. She listens to what has and hasn’t worked before, then suggests a mix of exercises, discussion, and between-session practice to try out.

Online therapy options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video lets people use visual cues and longer sessions; phone can be simpler when bandwidth is limited. Live chat and messaging suit brief check-ins, skill practice, or times when writing feels easier. These options increase flexibility so therapy can fit into work, caregiving, and travel schedules.

Questions people ask

What concerns does she address?
Mary supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma, ADHD, addictions, grief, and related concerns listed in her specialties.
What is her therapy style?
She uses a blend of client-centered care, acceptance and commitment ideas, cognitive-behavioral techniques, attachment-based thinking, and dialectical behavior tools to help clients build skills and make values-based choices.
How much experience does she have?
Mary has 17 years of clinical counseling experience working with a range of emotional, relational, and life-transition concerns.
What are her credentials and where is she located?
She holds LPC credentials and practices in New Jersey.
Which languages are supported and can she work across borders?
Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.
What session formats does she offer?
Sessions are available by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How are fees handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

What this therapist works with

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Experience
17 years
Licensed
New Jersey
Languages
English

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