About Olayinka
Olayinka "Mary" Akeju is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in New Jersey who draws on a client-centered approach to help people facing stress, anxiety, relationship struggles, and ADHD. She keeps sessions focused and practical, helping clients name their priorities and try small, doable changes between meetings. Mary uses straightforward language and steady support to help clients feel understood and make progress.
Mary combines acceptance and commitment ideas with cognitive-behavioral tools to address unhelpful thoughts and patterns.
Background and approach
She also uses attachment-based thinking to look at how early relationships shape current struggles. Sessions often include skill building for emotional regulation and clearer communication with others. Mary has 17 years of counseling experience.
That background informs how she tailors strategies for each person. She pays attention to cultural context and to the particular stressors a person brings into the room. She helps people cope with trauma, parenting stress, grief, addictions, mood swings, and career concerns.
Mary also supports those dealing with identity questions, intimacy challenges, and eating or sleeping problems. Her approach blends practical steps with attention to values and relationships. People who choose Mary can expect a collaborative process.
She listens first, then offers tools and exercises to try between sessions. Her goal is to help clients build clarity, stronger coping, and healthier patterns over time.
Approaches that guide online work
Mary frequently draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) when working online. ACT focuses on clarifying what matters to a person and building small actions that match those values, which can help with motivation and life changes. CBT breaks down thoughts, feelings, and behaviors to identify patterns and try practical skills that reduce distress over time.She also uses attachment-based ideas to notice how early relationship patterns affect current reactions and closeness. That perspective helps when a client wants to improve communication or manage emotional triggers. Together these approaches give both short-term tools and longer-term ways to shift relationships and habits.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Mary collaborates with each client to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. She listens to what has and hasn’t worked before, then suggests a mix of exercises, discussion, and between-session practice to try out.
Online therapy options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video lets people use visual cues and longer sessions; phone can be simpler when bandwidth is limited. Live chat and messaging suit brief check-ins, skill practice, or times when writing feels easier. These options increase flexibility so therapy can fit into work, caregiving, and travel schedules.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Parenting issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Stress, Anxiety
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
- Systemic Therapy
- Experience
- 17 years
- Licensed
- New Jersey
- Languages
- English
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