About Shirley

Shirley Colee is a licensed mental health counselor in Florida with 20 years of experience. She helps people who are dealing with relationship strain, grief, trauma, mood concerns, anxiety, and ADHD. Her approach is respectful and down-to-earth, focused on meeting each person where they are.

Shirley frames sessions around what matters to the client. She listens first, then works with the person to set clear, achievable goals. Conversations are practical and geared toward everyday life changes rather than abstract theories.

Background and approach

She uses several approaches to fit different needs, including client-centered work that follows the person's pace, cognitive behavioral techniques to address unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns, and skill-based methods from dialectical behavior therapy for emotional regulation. EMDR can be part of the plan when trauma memories are central to the problem.

Over two decades Shirley has supported people facing addiction struggles, parenting stress, career transitions, and self-esteem or identity concerns. She also helps with anger, impulsivity, and the long-term effects of family of origin pain. Sessions aim to build practical coping tools and clearer communication habits.

Shirley frames therapy as a collaborative effort. She adapts pace and methods to match each person's goals and lifestyle, and she encourages small steps that add up to meaningful change.

How therapy approaches work online

Client-centered therapy focuses on the person's experience and priorities. In this approach the therapist listens carefully, reflects what they hear, and follows the client's lead to build trust and clarify goals. It is useful when someone needs space to sort feelings and decide what matters next.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, helps identify unhelpful thoughts and habits and replace them with practical alternatives. It is often used for anxiety, depression, stress, and problems with behavior that interfere with daily life. Dialectical Behavior Therapy, DBT, adds skills for managing intense emotions, reducing impulsive behavior, and improving communication in tense moments.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Shirley will work with each person to test methods that match their needs, goals, and pace. She adjusts techniques over time based on what proves most helpful in sessions and daily life.

Online therapy offers flexibility in how people connect. Video calls let the conversation feel close to an in-person visit, phone sessions require less bandwidth and can fit a quick check-in, live chat works for shorter exchanges during the day, and text-based messaging supports ongoing reflection between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into work, caregiving, or busy schedules while using the approaches described above.

Questions people ask

What kinds of concerns does Shirley work with?
She helps people with relationship strain, family problems, trauma and abuse, grief, depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, intimacy issues, eating concerns, parenting stress, anger, self-esteem, career questions, bipolar, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and ADHD.
How would you describe Shirley's therapy style?
Her style is practical and client-centered. She listens first, then collaborates on goals and uses strategies that fit everyday life.
What experience does she bring to sessions?
Shirley brings 20 years of professional experience working with a wide range of emotional and behavioral concerns.
What credential does Shirley hold and where is she based?
She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, licensed in Florida.
In which language can I meet with her?
Sessions are offered in English, and she accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can be held via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different preferences and schedules.
How does billing and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What do I do to begin working with Shirley?
To get started, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

What this therapist works with

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Experience
20 years
Licensed
Florida
Languages
English

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