About Shirley
Shirley Colee is a licensed mental health counselor in Florida with 20 years of experience. She helps people who are dealing with relationship strain, grief, trauma, mood concerns, anxiety, and ADHD. Her approach is respectful and down-to-earth, focused on meeting each person where they are.
Shirley frames sessions around what matters to the client. She listens first, then works with the person to set clear, achievable goals. Conversations are practical and geared toward everyday life changes rather than abstract theories.
Background and approach
She uses several approaches to fit different needs, including client-centered work that follows the person's pace, cognitive behavioral techniques to address unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns, and skill-based methods from dialectical behavior therapy for emotional regulation. EMDR can be part of the plan when trauma memories are central to the problem.
Over two decades Shirley has supported people facing addiction struggles, parenting stress, career transitions, and self-esteem or identity concerns. She also helps with anger, impulsivity, and the long-term effects of family of origin pain. Sessions aim to build practical coping tools and clearer communication habits.
Shirley frames therapy as a collaborative effort. She adapts pace and methods to match each person's goals and lifestyle, and she encourages small steps that add up to meaningful change.
How therapy approaches work online
Client-centered therapy focuses on the person's experience and priorities. In this approach the therapist listens carefully, reflects what they hear, and follows the client's lead to build trust and clarify goals. It is useful when someone needs space to sort feelings and decide what matters next.Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, helps identify unhelpful thoughts and habits and replace them with practical alternatives. It is often used for anxiety, depression, stress, and problems with behavior that interfere with daily life. Dialectical Behavior Therapy, DBT, adds skills for managing intense emotions, reducing impulsive behavior, and improving communication in tense moments.
Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Shirley will work with each person to test methods that match their needs, goals, and pace. She adjusts techniques over time based on what proves most helpful in sessions and daily life.
Online therapy offers flexibility in how people connect. Video calls let the conversation feel close to an in-person visit, phone sessions require less bandwidth and can fit a quick check-in, live chat works for shorter exchanges during the day, and text-based messaging supports ongoing reflection between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into work, caregiving, or busy schedules while using the approaches described above.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Bipolar disorder
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Stress, Anxiety
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Existential Therapy
- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
- Gottman Method
- Imago Relationship Therapy
- Jungian Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
- Experience
- 20 years
- Licensed
- Florida
- Languages
- English
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