About Shomaya
Shomaya McFarland is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Louisiana with 13 years in mental health care. She offers a relaxed, down-to-earth style that helps people talk through stress, anxiety, relationship struggles, anger, and ADHD-related concerns. Her approach is conversational and respectful, aimed at helping clients feel heard and understood.
She has worked as a counselor, crisis therapist, counselor supervisor, and case manager. That range means she knows how to listen, give clear feedback, and help people find workable next steps.
Background and approach
Sessions tend to focus on present-day problems like work stress, communication breakdowns, and emotional overwhelm. Her style centers on active listening and gentle feedback. She helps people identify alternatives to unhelpful patterns and supports them in trying new ways of coping.
The tone is informal and encouraging rather than highly structured or clinical. She can help with relationship and intimacy issues, processing grief, coping with life changes, and dealing with guilt, shame, or low self-esteem. Shomaya also supports people navigating LGBTQ+ concerns, infidelity, divorce or separation, and career-related stress.
She notes that deep trauma work or long-standing childhood emotional wounds may not be the best fit for her practice. For many everyday and mid-range struggles, she focuses on practical tools, clearer communication, and steady emotional support to help people move toward their goals.
How therapeutic approaches translate to online care
Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and responding to what matters most to the client. The therapist creates a nonjudgmental atmosphere and follows the client's pace to help them feel heard and to explore goals and choices. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at patterns of thinking and behavior that keep problems going and teaches practical tools to change those patterns. It is useful for anxiety, stress, low mood, and many everyday challenges. Dialectical Behavior Therapy, or DBT, blends acceptance and change skills and includes techniques for managing intense emotions, improving communication, and reducing impulsivity.Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with the client about their goals, symptoms, and preferences, and together they will try options that fit the person's needs. That may mean using CBT tools for a while, then shifting to more client-centered conversations or DBT skills practice for emotion regulation.
Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to give flexibility. Video lets people work face to face from different locations, while phone sessions use less bandwidth and can be easier to fit into a work break. Live chat and text messaging support frequent check-ins and brief problem-solving between longer sessions. These options make it easier to keep therapy consistent with daily life and responsibilities.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Intimacy-related issues
Also listed
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Divorce and separation
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Money and financial issues
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexuality
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 13 years
- Licensed
- Louisiana
- Languages
- English
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