About Tamara

Tamara Gilarski is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) practicing in Florida with 35 years of experience. She focuses on helping people who struggle with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, self-esteem, coping with life changes, and ADHD. She aims to make the first step less intimidating and acknowledges the courage it takes to reach out for help.

Tamara creates a calm space where clients can talk about what’s on their mind without feeling judged.

Background and approach

She listens carefully and helps people sort out priorities and next steps. Sessions are practical and grounded in everyday concerns like managing stress, improving motivation, and building confidence. Her approach is collaborative.

She works with each person to set clear goals and to try strategies that fit their life. That can include pacing work into small steps, practicing new routines, or talking through reactions to past events. With decades of experience, Tamara brings steady, patient support for people facing big changes or longstanding struggles.

She pays attention to how life events and relationships shape thoughts and behavior. She also helps people who are navigating issues such as abandonment, adoption and foster care histories, aging concerns, autism spectrum features, and impulsivity. Tamara offers sessions using several remote formats to fit different schedules and needs.

She encourages prospective clients to take the matching questionnaire and schedule a first meeting when they feel ready.

Approaches and how online sessions help

Tamara uses proven therapeutic techniques that focus on practical change and coping. One common approach she uses is problem-focused work that breaks bigger issues into small, manageable steps to reduce overwhelm and improve day-to-day functioning. This approach is useful for stress, motivation, and building routines.

She also uses trauma-informed listening and processing to help people make sense of painful events and their effects on thoughts and behavior. That method aims to reduce reactivity and increase a sense of control over daily life. For ADHD-related struggles she emphasizes strategies that help with organization, impulse management, and planning rather than formal diagnostic work.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. She works collaboratively with each person to choose methods that match their needs, goals, and preferences, and adjusts plans as progress and challenges emerge.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video sessions work well for more in-depth conversations and visual cues. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or for shorter check-ins. Live chat and text messaging offer flexible, brief check-ins and can fit into busy schedules. These options make it easier to keep therapy consistent around work and family life.

Questions people ask

What kinds of concerns does Tamara address?
She helps people with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, self-esteem, coping with life changes, and ADHD, plus several related concerns such as impulsivity and relationship impact from past events.
What is her therapy style like?
She keeps sessions straightforward and calm, listening closely and helping clients set realistic goals and steps to reach them.
How much experience does she have?
Tamara has 35 years of professional experience working with a wide range of emotional and life challenges.
Where is she licensed and based?
She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, practicing in Florida.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different preferences and schedules.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What do I do to begin working together?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a session based on the therapist's availability.

What this therapist works with

Experience
35 years
Licensed
Florida
Languages
English

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