About Toni
Toni Hernalsteen is a Licensed Master Social Worker (LMSW) based in Michigan with 17 years of clinical experience. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, depression, relationship strain, and ADHD. Toni offers a calm, respectful approach and aims to help people find motivation to keep moving forward.
She uses practical conversation and collaborative problem solving. Sessions focus on building coping skills, improving communication, and addressing sleep or anger difficulties.
Background and approach
Toni adapts the work to each person's needs and goals rather than using a one-size-fits-all plan. Her background includes long-term work with individuals, couples, and groups across a range of life challenges. She draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, client-centered techniques, and mindfulness practices to guide sessions.
Toni describes herself as creative and willing to think outside the box to uncover motivation and next steps. She listens actively and tailors treatment planning to what matters most to the person in front of her. Her style emphasizes respect, sensitivity, and compassion.
People who come to Toni can expect a practical, goal-oriented process. The focus is on real-world changes like better sleep, clearer boundaries, healthier relationships, and steadier mood. She encourages small, achievable steps and ongoing reflection as progress is made.
How Toni Uses Evidence-Informed Methods Online
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts without being controlled by them and then choose actions that match their values; it is useful for anxiety, stress, and making life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) breaks problems into thoughts, feelings, and actions so clients can test beliefs and try small behavioral changes to improve mood, sleep, and relationships. Motivational Interviewing focuses on building a person's own reasons for change and can help when motivation feels stuck, such as with substance use or lifestyle shifts.Finding the right mix of techniques is a team effort. The therapist will talk with the client about goals and preferences, try approaches that fit those needs, and adjust the plan based on what is working. The process is collaborative and paced according to the person's readiness and comfort.
Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy easier to fit into a busy life. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation for skill practice. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited. Live chat and text work well for brief check-ins, coaching-style support, or when someone prefers writing. These options give practical flexibility for scheduling, follow-up, and step-by-step progress.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 17 years
- Licensed
- Michigan
- Languages
- English
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